Why Are We Here?
Posted by tannus in miscellaneous on April 19, 2010
So, why are we here?
Probably the same reason you are!
You’ve been looking for ways to become a better, more fulfilled man. You want an interesting, fun-filled social life with an abundance of friends (male and female) and mostly, you want your choice of which beautiful, interesting and exciting woman is on your arm!
Perhaps you want that beautiful woman to eventually be a loving, committed wife, or perhaps you want that beautiful woman to be your eye candy for a couple of weeks before seeing what else is out there.
Either way, you’re here because you seek improvement in yourself and your current lifestyle – and that is why we are here. To help you succeed in your goals!
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Charla’s Thoughts on Pickup Lines
Posted by tannus in basic conversation, opening a conversation, pickup lines, small talk on April 16, 2010
We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.
Do you prefer guys use “pickup lines” to initiate conversation or does “hello” work better?
I don’t like pick up lines, I find them cheesy. As I said before, maybe a nice compliment that required more observation would be nice. The fact that a guy takes the time to notice a detail about you says a lot. It means he’s not just running around hitting on anything with a pulse. He took his time to notice something in particular about you, and that gives the impression that he has a genuine interest.
- Charla (29)
Charla’s Advice to Wall Flower Guys
Posted by tannus in approach anxiety, night clubs, opening a conversation on April 16, 2010
We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.
If you could give the “wallflower” guys one piece of advice in a nightclub setting, what would it be?
Truly enjoy yourself, no matter what. It’s really nice to see a guy who is having a good time, not worrying if he’s going to score that night or not. Laughter and smiles speak volumes.
- Charla (29)
Charla’s View of the Dance Floor
Posted by tannus in approach anxiety, flirting, night clubs on April 15, 2010
We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.
Tell us your thoughts & experiences of the dance floor at a night club.
It makes me laugh to see guys who can’t dance and try hard to impress the girls. On the other hand, I’m always glad to see guys who can’t dance but don’t care because they are truly having a good time. The difference between a guy who does it to impress and a guy who does it because he genuinely enjoys it are very obvious, and kudos to the latter ones.
Now, on the grinding. I can’t even begin to explain how much I hate that. I’m pretty sure I even called the club’s security on a grinder once. It’s entirely disrespectful, tasteless and the number one way to get me to dislike you from the start.
- Charla (29)
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Charla’s View on Approaches
Posted by tannus in approach anxiety, basic conversation, flirting, opening a conversation, small talk on April 14, 2010
We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.
What would you consider the BEST thing guys do when approaching a woman.
Doing so in a natural way, maybe with a nice compliment. Extra points if he compliments something that required more attention of him. For example, instead of just complimenting a girl’s eyes (too typical and un-original), maybe compliment the pendant she is wearing on her necklace. There’s usually a story behind the accessories girls wear, and this could be a great conversation-starter which shows a genuine interest in her and her attention to detail.
- Charla (29)
Approach Anxiety Annihilator
Posted by tannus in product reviews on April 13, 2010
Charla’s View on Fashion
We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.
What do you consider to be the number 1 fashion mistake guys make?
For me, the most common mistake guys make is not paying attention to the way they look. I believe fashion varies, and what suits one may not suit the other, but still it is very easy to pick out the guys who have put some thought into their outfits. They stand out over the ones who just don’t care about their appearance (and generally hygeine as well).
- Charla (29)
Jessica’s Thoughts on Pickup Lines…
Posted by tannus in basic conversation, pickup lines, seductive small talk, small talk on April 12, 2010
We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.
Do you prefer guys use “pickup lines” to initiate conversation or does “hello” work better?
Some pickup lines arent bad, but they always make me laugh which is what i enjoy, so if a guy wants to use one to catch my attention my only advice is to be able to keep up after words and hold a logical converstation. Hello seems too, simple. Gotta have a little extra to show me your confident. But I do enjoy a guy that can initiate a conversation without something as ‘nice shoes, wanna f***?’
-Jessica





