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Charla’s Thoughts on Pickup Lines

We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.

Do you prefer guys use “pickup lines” to initiate conversation or does “hello” work better?

I don’t like pick up lines, I find them cheesy. As I said before, maybe a nice compliment that required more observation would be nice. The fact that a guy takes the time to notice a detail about you says a lot. It means he’s not just running around hitting on anything with a pulse. He took his time to notice something in particular about you, and that gives the impression that he has a genuine interest.

- Charla (29)

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Charla’s Advice to Wall Flower Guys

We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.

If you could give the “wallflower” guys one piece of advice in a nightclub setting, what would it be?

Truly enjoy yourself, no matter what. It’s really nice to see a guy who is having a good time, not worrying if he’s going to score that night or not. Laughter and smiles speak volumes.

- Charla (29)

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Charla’s View on Approaches

We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.

What would you consider the BEST thing guys do when approaching a woman.

Doing so in a natural way, maybe with a nice compliment. Extra points if he compliments something that required more attention of him. For example, instead of just complimenting a girl’s eyes (too typical and un-original), maybe compliment the pendant she is wearing on her necklace. There’s usually a story behind the accessories girls wear, and this could be a great conversation-starter which shows a genuine interest in her and her attention to detail.

- Charla (29)

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aggressive sexual approaches

We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you.  Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.

What would you consider the WORST thing guys do when approaching a woman?

Approaching in an aggressively sexually-oriented fashion is a no-no!
In my eyes, they come across as desperate, lame and sleazy when they do.
A subtle, sexual approach is fine – that demonstrates confidence and seductiveness.

-Caroline (31)

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