Posts Tagged conversation starter
Charla’s Thoughts on Pickup Lines
Posted by tannus in basic conversation, opening a conversation, pickup lines, small talk on April 16, 2010
We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.
Do you prefer guys use “pickup lines” to initiate conversation or does “hello” work better?
I don’t like pick up lines, I find them cheesy. As I said before, maybe a nice compliment that required more observation would be nice. The fact that a guy takes the time to notice a detail about you says a lot. It means he’s not just running around hitting on anything with a pulse. He took his time to notice something in particular about you, and that gives the impression that he has a genuine interest.
- Charla (29)
Charla’s View on Approaches
Posted by tannus in approach anxiety, basic conversation, flirting, opening a conversation, small talk on April 14, 2010
We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.
What would you consider the BEST thing guys do when approaching a woman.
Doing so in a natural way, maybe with a nice compliment. Extra points if he compliments something that required more attention of him. For example, instead of just complimenting a girl’s eyes (too typical and un-original), maybe compliment the pendant she is wearing on her necklace. There’s usually a story behind the accessories girls wear, and this could be a great conversation-starter which shows a genuine interest in her and her attention to detail.
- Charla (29)


