We’ve been out “interviewing” dozens of women – getting advice straight from those that want to get to know guys like you. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be posting what these girls have had to say.

If you could give the “wallflower” guys one piece of advice in a nightclub setting, what would it be?

Truly enjoy yourself, no matter what. It’s really nice to see a guy who is having a good time, not worrying if he’s going to score that night or not. Laughter and smiles speak volumes.

- Charla (29)